is as controlling as Punishment.
To judge something
or someone as good is as controlling as to judge them as bad.
We have all
been conditioned into "good girls" and "good boys" so effectively
we are plastic monsters and non feeling automatons.
You remove yourself
from the interaction, keeping yourself separate. When separate you
do not experience what is really happening.
miss all the fun!!
Instead, of having fun, you
experience your own thoughts. This means you miss the many opportunities for pleasure
the major way you control yourself.
is different from real power.
is healthy flowing energy. Control is energy which is controlled (not
allowed to move) or out of control (forced to move too fast). To learn
how to tell the difference between real power which is flowing energy
and controlled and out of control energy study, the emotional health guide, "Opening
Judgment controls you and spoils your fun.
Even when you are being judgmental
of others, you are still controlling yourself. Whereas, the person you
judge may or may not be controlled by you.
your act of judging always controls you.
your judgment always spoils your fun.
You are a
head without a heart.
Critical, Controlling Eyes!
is mental energy without feelings.
Energy" is what Dr. Jeanette calls, "mental energy without
in GUILT. Guilt is the most awful experience a human being
can have. Guilt is the biggest waste and most destructive force in the
Guilt needs to be eliminated and never used to make life
choices. Guilt twists and binds your energy into sick knots. It is a
total waste of human energy. Begin to release your guild and misery
If there is a real reason to feel guilty, correct the problem
and cease your judgments.
Letting go of guilt releases
more human energy than anything else in the world. For more help in
giving up guilt, read or listen to "Opening
of your own judgment.
As you release
your judgment, you relax and enjoy life.
You become a part of life and
the living, rather than being controlled and dead.
Feel the difference
in your energy as you defend (judge) yourself and as you relax without
judgment. Dr. Jeanette's "Opening the Heart" audio tapes,
CDs or e book teach you how to live your life without judgment so you
can have more fun and feel better about yourself. These 3 self help
CDs, tapes or ebook guide you into emotional health and emotional wellness.
Dr. Jeanette's voice is a comforting, calming vibration to your nerves,
body and soul. Learn to feel your emotions and feelings ................Listen
to her loving voice right now.....
Back Home to drjeanette.com and other fun, self
improvement, self help things to do.