Unhappy With the Results of Your Sexual Performance? Suffer From Premature Ejaculation (PE)? Erectile Dysfunction (ED)? Sex Addiction?
If so, you could become a better lover
Unless you have a spinal cord injury or another medical problem that has been diagnosed by a physician, you do not need to take drugs to improve your sexual performance. Instead, you need to reclaim and put into action your natural born male strengths.
If you are not able to kick back and enjoy lovemaking for hours at a time in a loving relationship, then you need to learn how to become a better lover.
To become a better lover, you need to reduce your anxiety so you can relax and enjoy being a sexual, sensual man in an intimate situation.
A good lover is relaxed and self confident.
It's a fact that the more anxious you are, the less successful you will be as a lover. It does not matter if you are gay or straight; if your body is tense, you will be a lousy lover.
Since the publication of "Human Sexual Response and Human Sexual Inadequacy," by Masters and Johnson in 1966, sex therapists have known that men cannot "will" an erection or an orgasm.
So forget it.
The only choice you have is to relax and let your body do the talking. The only way to be a good lover is to get the tension out of your body so you can have good sex.
"For Men: Become a Better Lover" by Dr. Doris Jeanette, is an online course which gives you the tools and information you need to relax and trust your body.
Dr. Doris Jeanette is a licensed psychologist and trained sex therapist with 33 years of clinical experience improving the sex lives of men and women. If you are not familiar with Dr. Jeanette and her Sex and Love columns, read more about Dr. Jeanette.
In this online course you learn the tools you need to stay in your body before and during sex so you enjoy the experience and feel more connected to your partner.
In 1996 Dave walked into my office for the first time and sat down. I asked him, "What is your most important goal?"
He proclaimed, "I want to be a stud."
I said, "That's a noble goal! Let's get to work on this." Right then and there, I began to teach Dave how to relax his body so he could reduce the built up tension that was keeping him from having good sex.
The truth is, Dave was born to be a natural, cool, confident stud. So were you.
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"I have been paying attention to my breathing and following your instructions. Even this is making a big difference to my anxiety. Send me the next lesson now!" Jake in Australia
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Inside your body there is a natural born stud waiting for new, exciting, sexual experiences. All you have to do is get the anxiety out of the way so he can come out and play!
Anxiety takes the form of racing thoughts, tense muscles and nervousness in your autonomic nervous system. Anxiety makes you worry you will not perform in bed before you even get to bed!
Anxiety makes you think of what you need to "do" in the middle of kissing, instead of being in the sensuous moment feeling pleasure.
Anxiety makes you so nervous you have premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction. Anxiety makes you so nervous your touch is not effective, you are clumsy and unable to please your partner.
When you are anxious, you are thinking instead of feeling.
What happens when you relax?
You reclaim your natural born rights as a sexy, sensuous, confident man.
"For Men: Become a Better Lover" by Dr. Doris Jeanette has 10 written lessons which teach you how to reduce your anxiety so you can relax into your body and stay there during sexual and nonsexual situations.
What are the Benefits of Being Relaxed?
You:
1. Approach sexual and nonsexual situations with confidence.
2. Enjoy what you are doing in the moment.
3. Move your body with more freedom, ease and comfort.
4. Play, laugh and have lots of fun.
5. Respond spontaneously to your environment.
6. Feel satisfied with yourself and with others.
7. Smile, glow and shine ...especially after lovemaking.
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"I love you Dr. Jeanette. I listened to your fear tape and crossed the bridge for the first time in years. When can I see you again?" Dave, "the future stud."
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The above statement was on my answering machine two days after Dave's first session. Dave had crossed the Ben Franklin Bridge on his own after being unable to do so for many years. You will also notice many of your other anxieties and fears shifting when you learn to relax.
After Dave practiced relaxation for a few weeks, he began to feel more confident at work and with women. After a few months, Dave began to date women and have more fun. After a year, he developed a real relationship with a woman. Soon, he started having the best sex he had ever had in his life.
I have been blessed to hear on my answering machine many times, "I just had the best sex I ever had in my life! Thank you Dr. Jeanette."
Let me tell you about unhealthy sex. Several years ago, when I wrote my Sex and Love column for New Visions Magazine, I wrote about Mechanic Sex. I had coined this term many years ago to explain unhealthy sex.
Mechanic sex is fast, hard sex without feelings.
Macho men think this is good sex. It is not. It is anxious sex that is focused on the orgasm and nothing else. It produces a very limited orgasm, quickly. Quick ejaculations make you weaker, not stronger. Non-loving sex makes you weaker, not stronger.
Consider the alternative: Everything could feel good for a very, very long time. Yummy feelings and healthy energy could build up inside each cell in your body over time as you slowly get into more and more pleasure. This experience is a thousand times healthier and lots more fun than a fast, rapid, ejaculation.
Good sexual health will make you physically, emotionally and mentally stronger.
Pleasure is the way to go. Pleasure is what creates more and more vital energy that makes you physically stronger.
Good sex is slow and soft with your whole body involved. The best sex in the world makes you and your partner jump out of your skin and fly together into Never Never Land!
Men and women who have Mechanic Sex don't know what they are missing. Good sex is childlike, playful and fun. To be a good lover, by definition, you must be tender, sensitive and loving.
The good news is when you relax --your natural stud takes over. This means you naturally know how to make love to a woman or a man.
Each sexual encounter can be a new, exciting peak experience and adventure.
"For Men: Become a Better Lover" online course by Dr. Doris Jeanette also includes Opening the Heart, an emotional health audio series to help you begin to open your heart so you can give and receive more love. After all, lovemaking is all about love.
Benefits of an Open Heart
You feel:
1. Secure and do not seek approval from others.
2. Joy and other natural feelings and healthy emotions.
3. Free and can be yourself.
4. Love from others so your relationships improve.
5. Love toward others so your relationships become fulfilling.
6. More alive and have peak experiences.
7. Physically stronger in your body and heart.
If these benefits sound exciting and hopeful to you, order For Men: Become a Better Lover for only 199.97
Imagine this:
You are relaxed sitting at home with a first date. You can also apply the same mood if you are lucky enough to have a partner.
You are breathing fully and feeling relaxed. You move closer to her and touch her arm gently. She does not move away. You take a deep breath and honestly tell her how attractive she looks.
You let your fingers linger on her hand and feel the electricity between the two of you. It feels good to you and to her. Your body and hers both respond with pleasure and you feel the connection.
You are relaxed so you squeeze her hand and gently move away as you get up and get a drink for both of you. You let the good feelings move through your whole body. As you walk away, you turn and smile at her. Just with your smile you reassure her that she is safe with you because you care about her.
You have learned the tools you need to drive your own car. You are the master of your sexual energy. You are relaxed and confident that you can perform. You know you can relax and enjoy the evening touching, kissing and being sweet without rushing into sexual intercourse with anxiety.
You know you need to build up trust between you and your partner in order to be successful in a long-term relationship. You know you need safety and trust as much as your partner needs it.
This is not a pie in the sky future for you. Anxiety, premature ejaculation, worry, erectile dysfunction and unfulfilling sex do not have to ruin your life.
If you learn to relax--- romantic, sensuous, sexual pleasure can be your reality, order the online course, For Men: Become a Better Lover, only 199.97
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For Men: Become a Better Lover shows you how to become master of your own potent sexual energy.
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"Wow. Your information blows me away. No one else is saying what you're saying. It makes perfect sense. You are helping me so much." Michael Chandler
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Included in the For Men: Become a Better Lover Course
1. 10 written lessons. Each week your lessons arrive as pdf files. The first lesson arrives as soon as you place the order. It begins by teaching you how to stop high, acute anxiety and then moves into teaching you how to deal with chronic anxiety.
The first lesson also helps you understand what is going on inside of you and gives you a baseline against which you will measure further growth.
Subsequently, each written lesson builds on the one before it as you receive the learning research information you need slowly develop the skill set you need to relax into your body and trust it to do what it was born to do. (Value: $179.97)
2. "Opening the Heart" Audio Series. This 3 hour self-help audio series is an emotional health guide on feelings. Feeling your body feelings and emotional feelings are essential for good lovemaking. This audio series is calming, the sounds of Dr. Jeanette's voice soothes the nerves as she guides you into your authentic natural energy! You learn the difference between fear and anxiety, between feelings and thoughts and what to do when you cannot relax. (Value: $99.97)
Hear AUDIO NOW: Click Here to Listen to Dr. Jeanette's calming voice ...listen to 3 minutes of the Feelings audio. Use to calm down and feel secure in the moment.
3. "How to Tame Your Thoughts" Self-Help Audio. This is a self help audio in an educational format. The mind body information reinforces the body principles taught in the written lessons teaching you different ways to tame your out of control, racing thoughts and reduce your performance anxiety. (Value: $29.97)
4. "Anxiety Help" Self-Help Audio. This is a self-help audio in an educational format. Audio information that reinforces the relaxation principles taught in the written lessons about anxiety and fear. There are examples and real life issues to help you learn how to reduce general anxiety in your daily life. (Value: $29.97)
5. "Hear Your Body Talking" Self-Help Audio. This is a self-help audio in an educational format. You learn the 3 reasons you have a body. One of the reasons you have a body is for pleasure. Listening to this audio will help you let your body do the talking! (Value: $29.97)
6. Spiritual Sex Therapy Self-Help Audio. Self-Help audio in educational format. Ani Colt and Doris Jeanette discuss what good, spiritual sex is and how to get to the higher plane. (Value: $29.97)
What You Pay:
While the total value you receive is $399.82, you pay just $199.97 You save $199.85 (This is an introductory price.)
Don’t believe you can ever relax and enjoy sex?
Even if you have tried sex therapy before and have not been successful,
this online course gives you the body awareness and emotional awareness you need to succeed.